Derek

Derek

Derek has been in poly relationships for over 20 years and has been help support and build the local Tulsa poly community for 10 years. A recovering academic, he sometimes lets his creative side out but in very controlled and structured ways :)

Coping With Breakups in Polyamory

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Have you ever wondered if coping with breakups in polyamory is any different from traditional monogamous relationships? The truth is, navigating the complexities of polyamorous breakups can present unique challenges. From managing emotions to redefining boundaries, there is a lot…

Celebrating Anniversaries in Polyamory

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Are you ready to embark on a journey that will take your understanding of anniversaries in polyamory to new heights? Get ready to explore the intricacies and nuances of celebrating these milestones in relationships that go beyond the traditional norms.…

Polyamory and Self-Identity

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Are you ready to embark on a journey of self-discovery through the lens of polyamory? Delve into the intricate connection between polyamory and self-identity, where embracing this relationship style becomes an integral part of who you are. Your values, beliefs,…

12 Polyamory Words Everyone Should Know

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As someone deeply immersed in the world of polyamory, I’ve discovered the power of language when it comes to building strong and open relationships. Polyamory, the practice of loving multiple people simultaneously, offers a freeing alternative to traditional monogamy. But…

History of Polyamory

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As I dive into the enthralling history of polyamory, I am absolutely blown away by how it challenges everything we thought we knew about relationships. It’s like a rebellious force, smashing through the confines of traditional gender roles and family…

Jealousy: Normal in Polyamorous Relationships?

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Is Jealousy Normal in Polyamorous Relationships? Jealousy is a common emotion. It exists in polyamorous relationships too, but can be enhanced. It is not always bad; it signals there may be issues that need to be addressed. Communicate openly and…