Derek

Derek

Derek has been in poly relationships for over 20 years and has been help support and build the local Tulsa poly community for 10 years. A recovering academic, he sometimes lets his creative side out but in very controlled and structured ways :)

Polyamory And The Fear Of Abandonment

A polyamorous person walking through a crowded street, feeling overwhelmed by the world around them, but finding strength in the knowledge that they are loved and supported, Busy city environment with bright lights and people rushing around, captured with a fish-eye lens to emphasize the chaos, Photography, with a vintage film camera
Polyamory can be a great way to open up your relationship and increase intimacy, but it can also be a source of fear and anxiety. If you're afraid of being abandoned, polyamory may not be the right choice for you.