Derek

Derek has been in poly relationships for over 20 years and has been help support and build the local Tulsa poly community for 10 years. A recovering academic, he sometimes lets his creative side out but in very controlled and structured ways :)

Joined: April 12, 2023
Articles: 59

Jealousy

Jealousy In Polyamory: Navigating The Green-Eyed Monster

A person with their arms crossed, looking upset, Polyamory, jealousy, relationships, emotions, communication, DSLR, Portrait lens, Evening, Candid, Black and white with acid green

Navigate jealousy in polyamory: learn how to recognize and manage jealousy (the green-eyed monster within!)

Derek
April 12, 2023

Communication

What Are Some Tips For Having Successful Conversations About Polyamory?

Two individuals sit across from each other at a dimly lit coffee shop, sipping their drinks and engaging in a thoughtful conversation about polyamory. "active listening, empathy, respect"

Learn effective communication strategies for discussing polyamory with others. Discover how to set boundaries, listen respectfully, and manage conflict constructively.

Derek
April 12, 2023

Polyamory 101

How Do I Know If I’m Ready For Polyamory?

An individual sits alone in a peaceful setting, surrounded by nature, as they contemplate their readiness for a polyamorous relationship. "introspection, contemplation, self-reflection", mirrorless, prime lens, early morning, fine art style, black and white film

Polyamory can be a fulfilling and liberating lifestyle, but it's not for everyone. Here are some essential considerations to help you determine if you're ready for non-monogamy.